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Have the words “I Love You” become meaningless from overuse? This was the subject of a letter to Dear Abby in the paper this morning. I tend to read Jeanne Phillips every morning whether for lack of other amusing news in the newspaper or a habit I picked up from my mother. I’m not sure. 

Readers can guess from the signature “UNCOMFORTABLE IN TEXAS”, that the letter writer was uncomfortable with female and male friends ending their conversations or random meetings with the phrase, “I love you”, and he wondered if he was a weird guy because of this. 

Of course, Dear Abby assured him he wasn’t weird and that it was not uncommon for friends of both sexes to say “Love you” or “I love you” to each other. She went on to say it was healthy to express our feelings because there’s never too much love in the world. 

This “Love you”  letter brings back a memory for me from many years ago. As you know, Andrew is the baby of the family having four older sisters, two of which are eighteen years older. By the time he was born they were off doing their own things and staying in touch was done often by phone. I ended most calls with them with “Love you”. One day when Andrew was about four, I hung up from a conversation with one of the girls and he immediately said, “You forgot to say I love you.” 

Who knew he was even paying attention? After that I had to be careful of what I said in his presence because four-year-old’s pick up quite a bit. To this day he ends all his phone calls with me with “Love you”. So do the girls. I’m hoping this is one trait that will be passed down in the generations. 

Now another story comes to mind about a good friend of mine who lives in another state. I actually think Vikki and I became better friends after I moved from Louisiana to Florida. We talked a lot more, but that may have been because all our children were finally in school and we had the house to ourselves most of the day. Sometimes I wonder how either of us got anything done while talking on the phone so much. That was at a time when texting was nil and watching the minutes on our cell phone plans was an everyday occurrence, but we made that daily phone call last as long as we could. 

Vikki was my sounding board on my first book, “Crossing The Line“. I asked for advice. She gave it. Sometimes I took it and sometimes not. 

One day during a particularly long conversation, I was multitasking while talking and trying to prepare dinner at the same time and she was probably doing the same. We ended our conversation quickly to get dinner on the table in time. “Bye, I love you.” 

Wait! What? Did I just say that? Did I just tell Vikki, “I love you”

“I immediately called her back and she said, “It was so fast, I wasn’t sure what you said, but uumm, yes, I think you did.”

It seems good habits are as hard to break as old ones are. “Love you Vikki!” 



Sorry, I Dropped My Phone 

Sorry, I Dropped My Phone 

Thanks to Andrew I have graduated from earbuds to newer technology. I can now listen to my newest favorite book on Audible and screen my phone calls while I am sewing, with no worry of loosing connection by jerking my phone off the table or my earbuds out of my ears when I stand up to move away. Don’t you hate it when that happens? 

Loosing connection is what Andrew hated the most because it seemed to always happen when I had him on the phone. “Sorry, I dropped my phone. What did you say?” Maybe he feared one day I would miss something very important. With this new wireless stereo headset I’ll catch every word clear as a bell. 

No matter though. He thought enough to purchase these for me last week. Today I have a block of time to sew and listen and talk. I’m excited to try them out because I’m in the most exciting part of “The Winter Over” by Matthew Iden on Audible. 

Now if someone would invent a way I could multitask and write at the same time I would finish my WIP in a more timely fashion! 


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